James Martin Solis, Baldwin Park, CA
Survived by Son Daven James (DJ); Daughter Savannah Rose (Annie); Sister Cathy Ann Solis; Niece Courtney Jean Acevedo; Sister Cherie Jeannette Lugar; Nephews John Michael, Joseph Martin Lugar; Mother Pam Karis; Step-father Keith Karis
James was diagnosed with rectum cancer, which spread throughout his body. He lived for about two years with the disease.
He was very optimistic and always looking for the good in everything and everybody. His family was very important to him, but he was also a great friend to many. He loved visiting different countries, seeing their customs, and eating their food. When he was in the Army he got his first taste of traveling and kept it up throughout the rest of his life.
Visiting Europe with some friends the summer before he passed was very special to him. He loved soccer and being part of Galaxy fan club, last game he attended they won the World Series. Being his Mom, I think the best part of him, which I’ve always been proud of, was he was always true to himself. Big heart and time for anybody but always made sure he did what he wanted, and did it the best he could.
He worked at Union Pacific Railroad in Communications. When he finished his tour of duty in the Army, he went to Mt. Sac to get his degree that he needed to work with the railroad, all while working two part time jobs to earn a living for his wife and baby daughter.
He loved camping and being out doors, whether it be fishing, hunting or just sitting at the campfire. He was truly a fan of soccer. Even when the cancer progressed to the point that he was in such bad pain, he tried to go to his son’s soccer games a much as he could.
James had the ability to listen to anybody. Was always ready to help someone in need. If there was a way he was able to, he was right there. Not really going for the underdog, but didn’t want anybody left out of anything.
He was my son, my friend, the one I leaned on at times while he was growing up never complained, was always ready to help.
I guess what he always did, what everybody should do is live your life to the fullest. Don’t complain, don’t think anything is owed you; just do the most you can and enjoy life.
I’ll miss you.
I remember visiting him with my wife Sabine in early 2009. We had known him from Germany when I was stationed there as well. We had some good times with him and his then fiance Vera just after they first met. He drove me to the US Embassy in Munich to apply for my marriage license in 1991. He was always one to be there for others, and had a big heart. I will miss him, and wish his family well.
~Willie